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Why Traditional Leadership Advice Is Keeping You Stuck (And What to Do Instead)
    HAPPY Sunday, Achiever!   Most leadership advice still emphasises that success begins by managing others more effectively. Most Leadership training teaches you what you should do. Leadership that only focuses on others will eventually break you. Take Rachel, a senior leader I recently worke...
May 04, 2025 high-performance conversations
Reframing Resistance in Conversations
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever!  What if resistance isn’t the problem—but a clue?   It’s easy to write resistance off as stubbornness, defensiveness, or even laziness. But what if, instead of being a barrier, it’s actually a breadcrumb? A clue pointing us toward something deeper—a fear, a wound, a sto...
Apr 27, 2025 high-performance conversations
When Safety Breaks, So Does the Conversation
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever!    It wasn’t the words that broke the trust.It was the look. The clipped tone. The quick interrupt. In a leadership workshop last quarter, one of my clients—let’s call her Mia—finally voiced an idea she’d been sitting on for weeks. It wasn’t fully formed, but it was bol...
by Tabitha Leonard — Apr 20, 2025 high-performance conversations
Safety Before Strategy - The Missing Ingredient in High-Performance Conversations
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever!   We often assume that strategy is the key to success. If we plan well, map out the objectives, set clear KPIs, and hold regular meetings, we’ll drive results. Right?   Not always.   We forget that even the most brilliant strategy will collapse under the weight of sile...
by Tabitha Leonard — Apr 13, 2025 high-performance conversations
When Silence Speaks Louder Than Words—Are You Listening?
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever! This wasn’t defiance. It was fear. Years ago, I had a team member who suddenly went quiet. She was one of those people you could always count on—sharp, steady, calm in chaos. A safe pair of hands, especially in high-pressure situations. But partway through a particular...
Apr 06, 2025
Are You Listening to Respond—or Listening to Protect?
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever! We pride ourselves on being good communicators.We nod at the right time. Maintain eye contact. Drop in an encouraging “mhmm.” But there’s a difference between hearing words and holding space.And sometimes, the bravest thing someone will ever tell you is: “I don’t feel...
Mar 30, 2025
Why Your Conversations Might Be Failing (Even When You Say the Right Thing)
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever! You’ve been told that great communication is about clarity. Say what you mean.Be direct.Use the right words. But here’s the truth:Even the clearest communication can fall flat when the nervous system of the person you're speaking to doesn’t feel safe. If your message i...
Mar 23, 2025
Why Your Communication Training Didn’t Stick....
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever! And How to Fix It   When My Leadership Training Fell Flat I remember the first time I attended a leadership development program. I was excited—this was supposed to be the training that would help me lead better, communicate more effectively, and navigate challenging co...
Mar 16, 2025
Overcoming Burnout
  HAPPY Monday, Achiever! A 5-Step Framework for Sustainable Success   Burnout isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a genuine challenge that many of us face in the relentless pursuit of success. Whether you’re leading a team, running a business, or navigating demanding personal responsibilities, the wei...
by Tabitha Leonard — Mar 09, 2025 highperformancehabits leadershipwellbeing selfcarestrategy sustainablesuccess worklifebalance
The Future of Leadership Is Conversational, Not Positional.
  For so long leadership has long been defined by hierarchy, authority, and position. Titles and roles traditionally dictated influence, with power flowing from the top down. But the world is shifting. The rapid pace of change, the rise of diverse workforces, and the increasing importance of col...
Mar 02, 2025
*Stop Judging | Start Accepting
  "It's not perfect..." That's an internal voice I need to regulate EVERY day. Acknowledge it and receive it with compassion. What it is really saying is you are not perfect. Then the logical voice responds, 'yeah, and who is...stand down Perfectionist Polly" There is a tug-of-war going on in my...
Feb 17, 2025
Ditch the Surface-Level Bonds—Create Trust That Transforms
Let’s talk about trust. It’s the backbone of every great coaching relationship—and honestly, every meaningful conversation. Without trust, we can only scratch the surface. With it? We can dig deep, explore, and unlock incredible growth. We often navigate conversations believing that basic communi...
Feb 16, 2025
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